How the age difference is calculated
The calculator counts from the earlier date of birth to the later one: full years first, then full months, then the days left over. It's the same method as working out someone's age, so end-of-month dates and leap years are handled the same way.
Example: one person was born on March 3, 1988 and the other on June 14, 1992. The difference is 4 years, 3 months, 11 days, or 1,564 days.
Why the difference in years seems to change
The exact difference is fixed for life. But if you compare whole-year ages, it can look different depending on the time of year: right after the older person's birthday the gap in ages is one year bigger than right after the younger person's.
The “half your age plus seven” rule
When both people are adults, the result also shows this well-known rule of thumb for couples: the youngest acceptable partner age is half your age plus seven, and the oldest is your age minus seven, doubled. It's folklore, not science, and it says nothing about any particular couple.
